tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31943569.post3373135852514994659..comments2024-01-28T07:29:31.518-08:00Comments on ONLINE PARENTING COACH: Adolescence and Narcissistic Disorder—Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31943569.post-28199130065042580562019-08-31T12:20:13.550-07:002019-08-31T12:20:13.550-07:00My son age 19 also recently diagnosed bi polar has...My son age 19 also recently diagnosed bi polar has almost destroyed me in trying to save him. He is now in jail and I have literally no physical emotional mental financial resources to continue to advocate and he has no one else left for family or who really cares. It is heartbreaking butI can only save me. I seometimes beliebe he l0ves and cares so much and I feel so sad for him but he has used people used me and I know my life is in just as much danger as his. He is 19 . I am 52 and I have lost everything amd everyone due to trying to help a teen who will have no one if I step away. But I have no choice. I wont survive. Its severe abuse that no human being can withstand. And the narcissists private life is so different for those who have to live with them that the scariest most dangerous part is that people dont see how much danger I live in. I believe in evil. I know my son isnt evil but only evil can be so cruel so diabolical and so far outside anything people would believe if they didnt live in my sh0es. I am terrified and in shock and absolutely non functional while my son is carrying on in jail much better off than me. People think im the one with the anxiety over- reacting and my son gets into legal trouble after trouble and yet evil has destroyed my life my relationnships and ironically people see him as a poor victim and even if he is a victim , I am a victim too. Its horrifying and my life is so unbalanced no sleep no foid no rest for days that i cant even go out and think peopke will see me as normal. God left me with no choice but to totally remove myself. I will be lucky if i can get my own life bacjk together ..its breaking me beyond human limits yet I kbnow my son will have no one to care or advocate for him but i cant as im dying. I physically and every way cannot even care for myself or my cats and now am isolated as my sons chaos and suicide and rage and hosputal ER then he ran to anpther state and is on probation so i spent 3 weeks fighting finding saving his lufeand from warrants leading to prison. And i have to save me. No one that has not dealt with narcissism would even believe me, at times I dont even believe how crazy and how illogical and how nightmarishly scartly and dangerous this is. I know its Evil as its like the heaviest blunt force trauma that could hit your heart and mind and every aspect 0f sanity or reality is gone. Leaving you lost and without the resources to go on. I love my son but I am terrified.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11022621232049519333noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31943569.post-14028493271477567052017-10-28T12:25:33.529-07:002017-10-28T12:25:33.529-07:00I wish mines would just move the fuck ot. I'm ...I wish mines would just move the fuck ot. I'm tired and shes a threat around my toddlerTiredhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13680799378377287477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31943569.post-30046118911879518042013-05-25T17:27:34.798-07:002013-05-25T17:27:34.798-07:00I'm struggling with my 19 year old son and app...I'm struggling with my 19 year old son and apparently narcissism...I am at a loss what to do with him now... he's just finished high school classes to go to graduation and is planning on moving to a small town to be with a 15 year old girlfriend... he has never had a job and expect them to be given disability benefits because his father has a disease. He refuses to talk to counselors because he doesn't think anyone understands what's going on in his brain. He says I may have given birth to him but I have never been a mother to him. He claims he was not raised with a father figure...although we have live with my dad for 20 years and now have got a new dad for him when I got remarried years ago... I've also done my best with biological father involved although that's also been difficult because of his emotional troubles. Can I get through to him that he needs help... how do I live with him if he refuses to get help.... how do I live with myself if he chooses to leave?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08750553849291589098noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31943569.post-30692391748355128032011-02-24T04:50:28.591-08:002011-02-24T04:50:28.591-08:00This sounds exactly like my daughter. She is 21 an...This sounds exactly like my daughter. She is 21 and thinks that she is better than everyone because she graduaated from high school with honors. She hasn't done anything since.bettynoreply@blogger.com