tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31943569.post3099180564309687230..comments2024-01-28T07:29:31.518-08:00Comments on ONLINE PARENTING COACH: How to Avoid Spoiling Your ChildUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31943569.post-68225376483621499742012-06-08T17:16:46.511-07:002012-06-08T17:16:46.511-07:00Hi, I just want to share for U or others parent th...Hi, I just want to share for U or others parent that have same problems, I hope This will help:<br />LOVE, CARE, that's magic word that every human like, no matter he/she have good or bad attitude.<br />So, if U can meet & talk to your Son, please tell him:<br />1. My, Son, I want to talk to you, please listen, because maybe this is the last conversation that i can do with you.<br />2. Please forgive me for anything i do for you i you don't like it. But you have to know that i do all of that because I LOVE YOU, I CARE about you.<br />3. You know, that, Human like as, never live forever, After we growth to be adult, we will become old and finally dead. So for preparing that we can live well, we have to work. And for work we have to can do anything good for others. So they can pay us. Now try to find anything activity that can make yourself useful for other and finally for your own life.<br />4. I can't live forever, look after you forever. <br />5. Now, just check your past activity. Are you happy, can you peace with yourself? Do you like 'always angry' to your mother, The only people that you can sure that anything she do just because she love you?" (If you have family photo, that can prove you love him, you can show him, If not, doesn't matter).<br />6. Now, try to think, and act the best, you can start with clean your room, clean your cloth, make some food, help mother..... etc.<br />7. Okay Son, That's it. And for now, I want to manage my life to. I will always love and care anyone that will accept my help such as in hospital, i think they always respect my action to them. And i will fix all my manner, I will try to near with GOD, who create us, GOD already give us the GUIDE BOOK how to life, I will try to life just like GOD told us, in that BOOK.<br />8. Son, no matter what, I always love you, and i will always open my hand, open my heart if you will come back to me, and build good live together, as mother & son.<br />9. You can cry, you can kiss him for the last, and go out from his room. Let him think. <br />10. I hope, you can touch his heart with this, he won't let you go, he will hug you, and asking for forgiveness, and promise to start build new good habits with you.<br />11. I hope GOD will help you ALL, for your intention to life with GOD GUIDE.<br /><br />I am is Tini Srihartati, from Indonesia, I am moslem (ISLAM). If you need THE UPDATE LIFE GUIDE, try to read AL-QUR'AN. You don't have to become moslem, if you don't want to. Just buy and read AL QOOR'AN like other PSYCHOLOGY BOOK., that you ever buy.<br /><br />You can contact my e-mail: hrd-indo@indo.net,id<br /><br />Anyway, thanks for admin of the www.onlineparentingcoach.com<br /><br />and forgive me if my english not good, but i hope you understand.Tini Srihartatinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31943569.post-71122724610312668082011-04-07T05:39:51.291-07:002011-04-07T05:39:51.291-07:00I have a 15 year old son. I was having a hard time...I have a 15 year old son. I was having a hard time with him, he got into drugs (alcohol, marijuana and ecstay) and was dealing, skipping classes, failed math, running away from home when I said no or took stuff away. I am 34,a Registered Nurse, and a single mom, my sons dad died when he was 6 in a car accident (but was high on meth). I placed him in a residental treatment facility because I was tired of not being able to work and leave my house for fear of his "partys" and distructive behavior. He was there for 100 days until he ran away. He was gone almost 4 months. I hired a private investigator and paid over 10,000 to find him. Only to find out that his dads side of the family had arranged to hide him out and lie to me and my family whaile i was very worried about him, put ads in the paper, was on the news, did fundraisers to raise money for the PI, spent every day off<br /> work looking for him, flyers, you name it. Its really unfortunate that his dads side of the family did that. He was out of school for almost 4 months, they had him staying at some boys house "friends" he said, and had a job at some nursery getting paid under the table. His dads side of the family always complains that I never let them see him, but in reality they were never around or interested in seeing him until now when there is problems. So now that my son is back, he is extremly rude to me, tells me to "get out" when I knock on his door, to let him know im going to work, you name it. He spits all the time and has a nasty mouth. He wants nothing to do with my side of the family who has always been there, but puts his dads side of the family on some high pedistal. I heard him tell his grandma he loved her yesterday on the phone, but then treats me like crap. He dosent want to go to school either. I tell him thats not an option and he will regret not<br /> having a diploma. He is nasty to me. My boyfrined moved out, my roomate is moving out. I think he feels like he runs the show, can do what he wants, and knows that I fear he will run. This isnt a typical situation, because that other side of the family will hide him and lie to me. I had police search their houses, call them, my family call them, and they lie to everyone. I wish they would leave us alone and worry about their own families. I do not know what to do with my son. I do not have an option of sending him anywhere, my family will not help financially anymore,and my insurance will not pay for it. I dont know what to do. I want to go to councelling but i doubt he will go, last time we did he just sits there and wont talk or walks out. Do you think your program will help? I have been in councelling myself, read every parenting book they recommended, and was recently put on antidepressants. I dont know what else I can do with or for this kid<br /> anymore.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com