16-year-old daughter constantly tells her younger siblings what to do...
Mark, Our 16-year-old daughter constantly tells her younger siblings what to do and how to do it and that the way they do things isn't good enough. It creates daily friction in the family. What can we do to make it stop? And do I understand you to say that parents shouldn't pay a lot of attention to children when they are fighting? ``````````````````````` Hi T., Re: And do I understand you to say that parents shouldn't pay a lot of attention to children when they are fighting? That's right. Too much attention handicaps a child's ability to fully grow up. In this regard, there is general agreement among parenting pundits that adolescence now begins at 10 and lasts almost 20 years. In the second place, children don't really like a lot of attention. They like to be ignored, to be left alone. But a child has no way of knowing that if he's never experienced the joys of being ignored. I'm describing a ubiquitous state of parental m...