Hi, some good news. The other night I had a really good chat with my son and went over the dependency cycle with him -- and also got him to tick which of the statements of behaviour was his, and which was the parents.
He was very honest and laughed when we came to the parent’s bit on saying “no” to kids. When I asked him why he was laughing, he said, “Because it sounded just like his dad.”
I have spoken to his dad and told him this and printed off some information for him including the dependency cycle. I have had a quick look at it with him, and he has said he will read it, but he wasn't sure if he could totally follow your program as he does find it so hard saying no.
But he has said we can go over it together and adapt to what he thinks he can manage and take it from there -- small steps at a time.
So I am making some progress.
Kind regards,
A. J.
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More information on the Dependency Cycle: www.MyOutOfControlTeen.com
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