My 15 year old son constantly yells, belittles his younger brother and basically tries to defy or argue when I ask him to anything. He certainly sets the mood for the house. I found it harder to stay in control and feel I am at wits end.
He doesnt worry about his appearance and I constantly remind him of basic hygiene. He lacks motivation at school, football relationships at school always seem to be a drama. He seems to be closer to girls and does not seem to be able to form close relationships with boys.
Has quit his part time job. Doesnt seem to be passionate about anything. He often tells me how he wants to leave and live with anyone but me.
My husband has been ill with Leukaemia and suffers with the complications of the treatment. It has impacted our life for the past three years.
Upsets me that he is so angry and not happy.
I would like him be responsible for the cleanliness of his room, his appearance and speak nicely and want him to contribute to the family in a loving way.
I feel I am always nagging but where is the fine line between letting him just do what he wants. I seem to feed off his anger.
I just want to understand R___ and my behaviour and what I can do to help to make this situation better?
Appreciate any feed back? If anything, writing helps to clarify my thoughts.
kind regards
J.
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