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Take EVERYTHING Away?


Mark,

When you say take everything away (during the 3 day discipline) do you really mean EVERYTHING? Is this always necessary?

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Hi S.,

It's not necessary to take everything away in most cases. Usually the kid only has a few things that she/he enjoys (e.g., phone privileges, iPod, computer). Thus, in most cases the parent can just confiscate the really important stuff.

However, there have been times when parents have literally taken away everything. Most recently I had a mother who took it all away (but only for 3 days, as directed). Her son only had the clothes on his back and a mattress on his floor (she even took his bedroom door off the hinges and removed all the 'junk food' from the house).

Now this may sound drastic -- and it does take some work, but when parents follow the program (and this particular mother is), they achieve outstanding results.

When taking everything away, you can put stuff in a locked closet, the truck of your car, a neighbors house, etc. But again, it's not usually necessary to go this far.

Tuff luv baby. If you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen.

Mark

www.MyOutOfControlTeen.com

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