{In your sales letter} you have given a lot of examples of what you know doesn't work, but I am interested in a sample of what you claim does work. Can you give me an example of one of your suggestions?
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Hi A.,
Here are just a few strategies that we detail in the eBook. I’ll show you how to:
1. Issue a consequence in a way that gets your child to work with you rather than against you.
2. Learn to differentiate between your kid’s wants and needs.
3. Follow through with the consequence without “nagging” or “arguing.”
4. Deal with your out-of-control kid when he/she resists your new parenting strategies.
5. Give equal love to all your kids, but parent them differently.
6. Give only one warning -- then follow through with a consequence.
7. Foster the development of “self-reliance.”
8. Control YOUR anger as well as help your child with his/her anger.
9. Avoid your child’s guilt-trips.
10. Develop a parenting-plan that is likely to be supported by both parents – even if they are divorced.
11. Learn to say -- and stick with -- “no.”
12. Respond to your kid’s anger with a poker face.
13. Take away privileges in a way that influences your child to change unwanted behavior.
14. Avoid pitfalls that accidentally reward your child for negative behavior.
15. Use active listening, empathy, paraphrasing and validation.
I want to show YOU how to be the “therapist” and how to approach your child -- in spite of all the emotional and behavioral problems. There is no need for you to continue living as a frustrated, stressed-out parent. I will help you bring the behavior problems to a grinding halt, but I can’t do it for you!
I’m here for you whenever you’re ready to Join Online Parent Support: www.myoutofcontrolteen.com
Mark Hutten, M.A.
Online Parent Support
