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Helping Older Teens with Making Plans to Move Out

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"We are trying to make sure we have a plan in place now in case our daughter decides not to go back to school (Gr. 12). At first we had thought we would tell her if she wasn't going to school, she would have to work more hours so she can pay us rent. We have now decided that probably wouldn't work as we would never be able to get the $$ out of her and it would be a real hassle. We like your idea of "helping" her to move out. We just want to know how to go about that. Obviously, she doesn't have any $$ to move out as she would need rent $$, damage deposit, etc. She can never save enough to come up with that....could take months and we are not willing to wait that long if she is not attending school. She has absolutely no clue as to what it would mean to live on her own. We do worry about that as we don't want anything to happen to her. We do want to get this process started though as soon as possible because we do feel she will not follow through...

Kids and Cell Phones

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Unlike other parenting problems, most of us can't really think back to our own childhood to see how our moms and dads handled this issue. After all, cell phones weren't around when most of us were children. For many moms and dads, a cell phone just seems like something else that their children will nag them about getting, such as an iPod, Xbox, Wii, or new laptop. Teens and preteens likely see the cell phone issue differently, imagining that getting a cell phone is a step towards independence and a status symbol among their friends. One very good reason to get your children a cell phone is that it lets you stay in touch with them at almost all times. In addition to being practical, like when a gymnastics lesson or baseball practice lets out early, having a cell phone can help you easily get in touch with your children in case of an emergency. This extra sense of security and safety that a cell phone providers is probably the key reason that moms and dads should even co...

"Back To School" Problems

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Last month, I invited readers to email me with their “#1 concern” for their child in the upcoming school year. I responded to each inquiry with suggestions. Overwhelmingly, the top concern was unmotivated children (thus, the topic of this article). What’s on the minds of moms and dads as the school year approaches and kicks off? Concerns and expected problems with school: • Bullying behavior, from both sides of the fence. • Homework problems: teaching kids to bring it home, do it, hand it in on time and not hate it. • How to get kids out of bed in the morning. • Paying attention and behaving in class. • Unmotivated children. Here are some suggestions for a reader who’s concerned about her son’s classroom behavior and his ongoing refusal to bring home assignments and do homework: We are so often presented with issues surrounding school, homework and academic performance, and we understand how this can become a family struggle. Your son’s job is to go to school and ma...

Instructional Videos for Parents of Children and Teens with Oppositional Defiant Disorder

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Parenting Tip: The "3 Times Rule" How To Monitor What Your Teen Does Online MyOutOfControlTeen.com - Advertisement As Seen On NBC Live PowerPoint Presentation by Mark Hutten, M.A. Presented during the Parenting Seminar (2010): Parenting Out-of-Control Children/Teens - Part 2 of 25 Live PowerPoint Presentation by Mark Hutten, M.A. Presented during the Parenting Seminar (2010): Parenting Out-of-Control Children/Teens - Part 1 of 25 Behavior Modification Strategies for ADHD Teens Help for Parents with Strong-Willed, Out-Of-Control Teens and Pre-Teens ODD: Risk Factors & Complications Oppositional Defiant Disorder [ODD]: Questions & Answers Medication for Oppositional Defiant Disorder and Conduct Disorder Conduct Disorder: Diagnosis & Prognosis Online Parent Support What Happens To Children With Oppositional Defiant Disorder When They Grow Up What Are Some of the Non-Medical Strategies for Conduct Disorder What Is The Difference Between ...

What Is The Difference Between Oppositional Defiance and a Personality Disorder?

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What Are Some of the Non-Medical Strategies for Conduct Disorder?

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What Happens To Children With Oppositional Defiant Disorder When They Grow Up?

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Conduct Disorder: Diagnosis & Prognosis

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Medication for Oppositional Defiant Disorder and Conduct Disorder

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Oppositional Defiant Disorder [ODD]: Questions & Answers

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ODD: Risk Factors & Complications

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Help for Parents with Strong-Willed, Out-Of-Control Teens and Pre-Teens

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